A——, you’re not listening to me.

But I am. I’ve heard and processed what you’re saying. I’m responding directly to what you’ve said. So I have to be listening in some capacity.

You’re still not listening to me.

Mom, just because I disagree with what you’re saying doesn’t mean that I’m not listening. I’m just trying to express my own thoughts and feelings on the subject. Can’t I do that?

You never listen to me.

Mom, we can’t keep doing this. This isn’t communication. This is… I don’t know what this is. I’m listening to what you have to say, and I’m trying to respond and be transparent in how I feel, but I just… How do you expect me to be open with you when half our conversations end up like this?

A——, why don’t you love me?